A weighted pillow designed for real nervous systems not one-size-fits-all calm.
Pediatric PT-designed with two weight zones. Flip for light or deep pressure exactly when you need it. For kids, teens, and adults.
Support your nervous system day or night
✔ Designed by a pediatric physical therapist and mom of four
✔ Graded weight for lighter or heavier pressure (5.5 compact pounds)
✔ Washable cover and durable construction
✔ Made in the USA by Neurodivergent, Intellectual/ Developmentally Disabled Workforce
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from 20 reviewsI originally thought I was getting the pillow for me. I felt as if I was getting a full, un-disturbed rest during the night. So I told my husband to try it and he uses it every night. Apparently I need another one.
I have so many things I want to say! First, the pillowcase itself is so soft and comfortable, I fell in love the moment it touched my face. Secondly... I SEVERELY underestimated how much I would use and love this pillow. I thought it would be great for evenings when I need to regulate down from work without bugging my husband for hugs. Instead, I use it almost every evening after work just because everything feels calmer with it wrapped around my neck and on my chest. And I've slept with it every single night since it arrived. It holds me perfectly, it's incredibly comfortable. It's the perfect amount of fluffy, weighted, etc. I've had weighted stuff where the weight just kind of slides and lumps and this does not. It stays distributed. I adore this thing!
I really wish I had this pillow after my mastectomy. The weight feels grounding and supportive without being overwhelming. It’s the kind of comfort you do not realize you need until your body finally settles.
So much so that there is a silent stealing war going on in our house. I know it is going to get taken tonight, but I have truly enjoyed having it.
My daughter loves this pillow. She is not usually a sensory-seeking individual; however, she does struggle at times with anxiety. She likes to use it while relaxing on the couch, especially when watching television. She is a teenager and finds this pillow comforting.
I absolutely love the Calmily Pillow truly one of my top five favorite gifts in my entire guide this year, out of more than a hundred products reviewed. I use the pillow daily, and it's genuinely incredible. As someone who regularly uses weighted products, this stood out immediately. The design, the feel, the grounding sensation, it's unlike anything else. I'm so grateful to have discovered it. Thank you for creating something so special.
I bought my Calmily pillow in August at the Harvest Festival, after years of trying every pillow and remedy for my neck issues. I'm so glad I did! This has been the best purchase of my life. My sleep is finally better, and my nighttime neck pain has almost completely disappeared. The way the pillow supports my neck feels so natural and gives me incredible comfort. I recommend Calmily to everyone. Don't wait, it's truly the best purchase ever.
I need to order a second Calmily pillow.
My children literally fight over it at night
It's the only thing that settles their bodies when they're overwhelmed or trying to wind down.
We started with one, now we definitely need two!
I’ve used a weighted blanket before, and while I like it, I find them to be a bit too heavy and difficult to maneuver. I used the Calmily pillow partially wrapped around my neck and partially laid across my chest. I liked using it while going on my phone or reading a book while reclined in a chair. The biggest benefits are the proprioceptive input and the feeling of relaxation it gives! I would describe it as a versatile weighted product that you can take anywhere whenever you need to self-regulate.
When we use the Calmily during the evening it helps us relax and reduce stress while reading or watching TV.
The Calmily pillow has been a game changer for our bedtime routine. My daughter asks for her ‘hug pillow’ every night!
For more than a decade I placed a big bulky afgan on my lap when I would sit to read, watch TV or complete a word puzzle. I was unaware, until I heard about Calmily, that my body was in need of the calming pressure. I use it daily now. It is much more compact, cooler, easier to handle and when not in use rests among the other pillows on the couch. I would highly recommend Calmily Perfectly Weighted Pillow.
The Calmily Pillow has been a game changer for our family. It's the first weighted tool my child actually enjoys using, it goes everywhere with us!
When your body won’t settle, Calmily gives it something steady to lean into.
A Pediatric PT-designed weighted pillow with gentle or deep pressure exactly where you need it for calmer days and better sleep.
Why Calmily Works
- Two Pressure Levels in One
Flip for light soothing input or deeper grounding pressure. - Sensory-Safe Comfort
Soft Egyptian-cotton blend. No zippers, Velcro, or scratchy tags. - Made with Purpose in New York
Handcrafted by neurodivergent and I/DD artisans. - More Than a Pillow
Supports racing thoughts, stress, transitions, and everyday overwhelm at home or on the go. For kids, teens, and adults. - Support During Recovery
Gentle pressure can improve comfort, promote relaxation, and be positioned where support feels best.
Always follow your healthcare provider’s guidance after surgery.
Discover Calmily
Support for Rest, Regulation, and Real Life
A Pediatric PT-designed weighted pillow that provides steady, comforting pressure to help bodies settle, focus, and sleep at home or on the go, all year long.
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