The only weighted solution designed for every nervous system.
Created by a pediatric physical therapist, Calmily’s graded-weight pillow delivers deep pressure where your body needs it most helping kids, teens, and adults rest, reset, and refocus naturally.
For stress, sleep, and sensory peace.

Calm Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All And Neither Are We
Graded weight prevents overwhelm light or heavy, your choice. Calm that fits your nervous system.

Calm Without Stigma
Portable, discreet support for focus and better rest. Calm should feel empowering, not embarrassing.

Settle Stress in the Moment
One pillow for meltdowns, bedtime, and busy days. When your child feels calm, you do too.

Comfort for Recovery
Soft, graded weight eases pain and discomfort to support your recovery.

Calm You Can Take Anywhere
From long days to busy commutes, soothing relief is always within reach. Because calm should travel with you, wherever life goes.
For Every Body, Every Moment of Calm

- When sleep won’t come, the day feels too heavy, or little bodies need grounding Calmily meets you there.
- Gentle, sensory-safe pressure that soothes the nervous system and restores peace.
Why Calmily Works
- Targeted Pressure, Real Relief → lighter side for gentle input; heavier side for deeper calming.
- Sensory-Safe Comfort → soft Egyptian-cotton blend, no zippers, Velcro, or exposed tags.
- Made With Purpose → sewn in New York by neurodivergent and I/DD artisans.
More Than a Pillow A Regulation Tool
- Soften → ease anxious thoughts with light grounding pressure.
- Settle → calm meltdowns and stress with deeper input.
- Anywhere → portable calm for bedroom, classroom, couch, or travel.
Let customers speak for us
from 10 reviewsI’ve used a weighted blanket before, and while I like it, I find them to be a bit too heavy and difficult to maneuver. I used the Calmily pillow partially wrapped around my neck and partially laid across my chest. I liked using it while going on my phone or reading a book while reclined in a chair. The biggest benefits are the proprioceptive input and the feeling of relaxation it gives! I would describe it as a versatile weighted product that you can take anywhere whenever you need to self-regulate.

When we use the Calmily during the evening it helps us relax and reduce stress while reading or watching TV.

The Calmily pillow has been a game changer for our bedtime routine. My daughter asks for her ‘hug pillow’ every night!

For more than a decade I placed a big bulky afgan on my lap when I would sit to read, watch TV or complete a word puzzle. I was unaware, until I heard about Calmily, that my body was in need of the calming pressure. I use it daily now. It is much more compact, cooler, easier to handle and when not in use rests among the other pillows on the couch. I would highly recommend Calmily Perfectly Weighted Pillow.

The Calmily Pillow has been a game changer for our family. It's the first weighted tool my child actually enjoys using, it goes everywhere with us!

As an occupational therapist, I've tried many weighted products. Calmily is the only one my clients consistently choose and it's the easiest for parents to use on the go.

The fabric is so comfortable and it is soft, yet supportive. As an adult, feeling the pressure and support against my back at night has created a more restful night's sleep. For my daughter, it creates a calming and safe item to hold when she needs to relax on the couch.

You might be a genius!! She keeps trying different ways to use it!!! She's totally loving it. I forgot to put her calmily on her when I tucked her in and she kept saying I need my heavy pillow. She snuggled right in and went to sleep once I placed it on her chest.

I use my Calmily Pillow for sleeping, reading and winding down. It's the first thing that's brought real comfort to my mastectomy side. Every woman recovering from surgery needs one!

I immediatley want to go to sleep when i put my head on the Calmily. I bet pregnant women and people with back issues would love a larger one. The consistency is better than any body pillow I've used.

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